This irks me until no end!! I read stuff like this on the forum all the time too. Nobody ever says they hope things will turn around for the mothers that want to parent their children but are backed into placing them because of life's circumstances. Kinda a heavy flip side.
First of all, I love to see you back on the Forum, Kristal... thank you for being here! It's by "hearing" each other's perspectives and exploring new ideas that each of us better formulates our own thoughts and opinions, so I truly appreciate what you are doing to help us all further explore this particular train of thought.
Secondly, while I "get" what you're saying, I think the Forum (as with any adoption agency-sponsored website) is pretty obviously intended to be a means of support for those who view the adoption option as a blessing, whether they're expectant moms not ready for parenthood, or wannabe-parents hoping to adopt. (Or other folks, whose lives have been somehow touched by adoption in a positive way.)
I have seen plenty of prayers around here, petitioning God to lend strength and discernment to those in need, regardless of the outcome. (But frankly, I also don't see alot of Forum prayers on behalf of those who decide to abort rather than place, or for those adopting parents whose trust in their child's birthparents has been violated in some way. Still, I don't expect to, because Abrazo's Forum may not be the most appropriate venue for those types of petitions in every instance.) However heartbroken some of our prospective adopters may be when an expectant mom with whom they were matched for months decides at the end to take her baby home from the hospital without being truly prepared to do so, you also never see any prayers beseeching God to make her change her mind-- even if perhaps some "should", perhaps (as suggested by the numbers of those babies that ultimately end up in the permanent care of Child Protective Services.) The Bible tells us there's a time and place for everything under the sun, and the Forum obviously cannot be everyone's time and place all the time.
I think our community does periodically lift in pray those who elect to parent, as well as those who wish they could but have decided for themselves that they can't because of life's circumstances... still, Kristal: if you feel there are not enough of these prayer petitions being lifted around here, why not add some of your own, in a way that is genuinely prayerful? (Just a thought.)