My heart absolutely bleeds for those birthmothers and birthfathers who cannot let their families in on their adoption plans.
My mom and dad have been awesome throughout this whole experience.
My dad came to the hotel while Stacy and I were signing the papers, and he waited in the lobby. I am soo glad that he was there. He had met Stacy for the first time on the day I delivered Claire to this earth. And Stacy is forever grateful for the kindness and warmth that he was shown by my family. They have been one of the rocks that I step on constantly to cross back and forth through the river of emotion that has taken hold of my life.
Family, to me is that rock. And I believe that it should be, no matter what. Even if they initially reject the idea or disconcern themselves from the situation; I think that it would feel better to just get it out! Don't hold back that feeling or try not to find the words to tell your family what has happened (or is happening) in your life.
I hope that you can find the courage in your strength to confront this demon, if it is bothering you.
hugs-
and good luck.