This is so true. Many people don't understand that. I remember having a discussion with my mom about this very thing when I told her about my upcoming placement of my son. I compared it to Russian Roulette and was only half kidding. It's beyond our control. When a biological child is conceived, the parents are not able to specify gender, hair color, eye color, personality, preferences, etc. Yes, genetics come into play. However, I look at my five brothers and sisters who have the exact same genetic pool and had the same environment and we're all as individual as we can be. SO George, I agree with you. Everything we do in life has some degree of risk involved. Becoming parents is no different.