Erin and James,
I can only agree with the rest of these responses...
I think birthfamilies are as varied as those seeking to adopt. I've been blessed with 6 great kids (5 through adoption, 4 through Abrazo). The last adoption involved a couple parenting 6 kids and they chose me, a single mom at that, because of my family size!
Best wishes for a smooth journey!
Kris