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For the adoption process, we went for orientation, a visit to meet our son's birthmom prior to birth, at birth/placement, and then for finalization. Now we visit each other because we're family.
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I talked with a couple recently, but they already have a son. If I hear of anyone...I'll definitely send them your way!
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Congratulations to the newest family! And continued prayers for this tiny babe and her wonderful first family.
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I feel like my Christian faith has helped me with open adoption, and my sincere hope is that Jesus would say, "Well done."
Because of my faith and following the teachings of Christ...
- I try to treat others the way I would want to be treated. (Matthew 7:12)
- I try to consider another's needs more important than my own. (Philippians 2:3)
- I can turn the other cheek if necessary (with God's help!). (Luke 6:29)
- I can weep with those who weep. (Romans 12:15)
- I'm learning to judge not, lest I be judged. (Matthew 7:1)
- I believe that love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
As far as it being confusing for the child...that is simply not true. Children are very smart and perceptive. Joshua is almost 8 but he definitely gets it! He loves having more people in his life to love him!
What I was trying to do was edit my original post to add the Bible references. Somehow I quoted instead! Oh well...
Eileen,
My family would tell you I'm far from awesome...but adoption/open adoption has definitely helped me become a better person!
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I feel like my Christian faith has helped me with open adoption, and my sincere hope is that Jesus would say, "Well done."
Because of my faith and following the teachings of Christ...
- I try to treat others the way I would want to be treated.
- I try to consider another's needs more important than my own.
- I can turn the other cheek if necessary (with God's help!).
- I can weep with those who weep.
- I'm learning to judge not, lest I be judged.
- I believe that love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
As far as it being confusing for the child...that is simply not true. Children are very smart and perceptive. Joshua is almost 8 but he definitely gets it! He loves having more people in his life to love him!
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(((Elizabeth)))
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Rebecca,
Andrea is right. You are still a Bald Tire, and from what I've observed you are a very important part of that group as you have been a huge supporter, encourager, and cheerleader in spite of your own disappointments. Great news about your CAT scan being clear! We'll rejoice with you when treatments are over, and pray that 2009 brings you all that your heart desires!
Susan
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All very well said, Kristal! Girl, we need to get you on Oprah!
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Great news...So glad to hear this!!
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Congratulations to the new family!!
May this be the beginning of a wonderful journey for all.
Does anyone else wonder if the Stork wrote this from her hospital bed or if she has an understudy?!!
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Rebecca,
Feel free to update here however/whenever you are comfortable. Also, from time to time if you want to let us know how we can specifically pray for you, I know there are lots of friends on the forum who are faithful in interceding for others. Take care of yourself.
Susan
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Praying for you Amanda and others who loved Melissa...I'm so sorry for your loss.
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My sincerest and deepest sympathy...may God grant you peace and comfort Glenn. Please know that your Abrazo family is praying for you.
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Double Blessings!!
Congratulations to the new mom and dad!! Lots of prayers for healing for the wonderful birthfamily that helped make your dreams come true!
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That was one of the most moving announcements I've ever read. May God richly bless you Jessika and give you peace and comfort in the days, months, and years ahead. You have shown courage and wisdom way beyond your years. I pray the relationship you have with Julie and Jonathan will continue to grow, and may the son you both love fill your lives with joy! Congrats to the new mom and dad!
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!! (Is there anything bigger than all-caps? If so, we need it!)
Kay and Darren and our newest and littlest WO kiddo, have a wonderful time getting to know each other and your birth family.
We can't wait to hear more!!!
John,
Surely you know about changing the font size and adding color!!!! And I think lots of emoticons would be appropriate for Darren...he loves those things!!!
:wub: 
Don't 'cha Darren?? I bet he's so happy (or sleepy) right now, he doesn't really care!!
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Congratulations Kay and Darren! Can't wait to hear all about your son! Special prayers for his loving birthfamily...
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Both great responses!
Yeah, I do tend to be long-winded!!
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Traci,
Errrrr is right!!
Just thinking out loud here and with the benefit of time to think about it (as opposed to coming up with something on the spot)...I would probably say something like, "That's great that she was able to find her birthparents (or biological parents)...I think that is a connection that many adoptees long for that people who were not adopted don't always understand. (And if at this point she didn't correct herself on her choice of the word "real" as opposed to "birthparent" because sometimes people catch that on their own, I would add....) "But as a mom who adopted her children, I consider myself Joshua and Lydia's "real" mom. I know you didn't mean to imply otherwise, but sometimes our choice of words can be taken the wrong way."
At which point she would probably apologize and say that wasn't what she meant...and you could say, "I know you didn't, and people use it all the time, but to someone whose life has been blessed by adoption, it carries a different meaning."
To me, the idea is not to make her feel bad, but to give her the benefit of the doubt AND to help her think about her choice of words. I think people who are not familiar with adoption don't give it much thought and sometimes the "language" is foreign to them.
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Has been a very busy last week for the Abrazo Chicks. And a very exciting week for all of us on the forum, always checking for updates. Big applause and hugs to the chicks for working so hard and making dreams come true. I love the announcements and how heart warming and creative they always are.
Tracey
And ((((HUGE HUGS))) to the first parents who have sacrificed so much to give their children the lives they dream of for them....
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Kristal,
I applaud you girl! You have such strength...I'm so glad you've found peace in your decision. You sound like you are in a good place! I'm also glad you are posting again. You have a lot of wisdom to share, and can be such a support for the women who have been where you were.
(((Hugs to you!!)))
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For a big hint, check out the profiles in the gallery!! Congrats to the blessed couple and continued prayers for this sweet boys' first momma...
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Adam,
That's awesome....thanks for sharing!
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What a wonderful announcement! Congratulations Glenn and Dyna...I have so admired your commitment and love to your son's first momma and wish you all the best as you continue your journey. Praying for peace for her in the days, months, and years ahead. May this little boy always know the love that surrounded him at his arrival.
Baby Announcements 2009
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Congratulations!! Adding prayers of healing for this brave first momma!