The first and second time we adopted, the sex of the baby did not matter. When completing the applications, we said that full anglo or anglo/hispanic would be fine.
We have 2 blond haired boys! This time around we are waiting for a girl to complete our family. Since our boys are almost both full anglo, we had originally thought that we wanted our daughter to be light complected as well. While that is partially still true, we are more open to the option of anglo/hispanic this time around. Before we adopted our first son, we had a failed adoption. The birthmother had some drug use early in her pregnancy. We discussed this with a few doctors and decided to take a chance. Although the adoption failed because the birthfamily skipped town, we felt good about our decision.
