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Hi Lisa - In answer to part of your questions, my husband Brian and I were 38 (him) and 39 (me) when we adopted our family almost 9 years ago. Our children were 2 months, 1 and 2 years at that time. I would say at that time we didn't "feel" old, although we were concerned that no one would pick us (a) because we were "older" and ( because we both could stand to lose some weight. Our fears were pushed to the side when we were chosen by our children's birthparents. We have three very active children, and although we are nine years older now, we do get tired, but we keep up with them. I think kids keep you young. This winter was very snowy and although I am not a winter sport lover, my husband took our children sleigh riding many times and yes, he was sore the next day, but he had a blast with them. Am I tired at the end of the day because I'm 47 (yikes), or is it because of what goes on between 3PM and 10PM? I'll let you decide. This is a sample of a typical night in our house: we come home from school, have a snack and start homework, I try to have dinner ready for my husband and whoever has a ball game that night, my husband on the way to his night-time job drops whichever child has a ball game off at their respective field (sometimes two have games on the same night at fields across town) and then I attend the game or games with whomever doesn't have a game. I keep one eye on the game and the other eye on our other children to make sure everyone stays safe. By the time we get home (around 8PM), sometimes we still have to eat dinner, finish homework and get baths/showers. So, by the time I get them tucked in and then make lunches for the next day and straighten up the kitchen, I too, am ready to hit the sack. I usually wait up for my husband and then go to bed. I don't know if age has anything to do with it, because when I talk to the 30-something parents in our town, their lives sound the same as mine. They too, are exhausted and in bed at 10PM. Lisa, don't worry ... you'll keep up with Kayleigh!

CONGRATULATIONS MARY AND MARK!!!!!!!!!!! When I read the post from Stork Central I was hoping and praying it was you! I am so-oo happy for all of you!!!!! I can't wait to see a picture of your beauty!!!! Miracles DO happen! Love,

Congratulations Jennifer, Doug and Miller!!! God Bless you and your new little one forever and ever. I'm sure we Forum regulars knew it was you, but I (personally) have been waiting for you to post the good news! Hope you don't have too many sleepless nights!

What a wonderful, wonderful story. As usual, I cried while reading it from start to finish. I didn't want to say beginning to end because this is just the beginning! God Bless You All!

Since we have many Guardian Angels in heaven, we like to say this prayer: Heavenly Angel, be my light In darkest hours of the night, Stay beside me while I sleep, Your ever-faithful watch to keep. In pouring rain or sunshine bright, I cannot wander from your sight, Day after Day, year after year, You keep me in your loving care. Dear messenger from up above, Symbol of God's precious love, Help me follow God's command, Guide my footsteps, hold my hand. Amen.

Best of luck to you and your wife! It will all work out I'm sure! Keep us posted. Remember ... it's not an "if", but a "when". God bless ...

Beautifully said KatieKevsMom ... I agree completely.

Take it from one who knows ... as soon as they place the baby (or in our case, babies) in your arms, the loving starts and goes on and on and on. You will never know how much love you are able to give until this happens.

Feeling Blessed - you deserve an "A" for your explanation of the Abrazo orientation! You did a great job and I think Robin has a terrific idea of what to expect.