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Posts posted by Matthew and Betsy
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I too have never liked the term "gotcha." That word, like the article said, just makes me think of a possession. I too liken it to the word snatch. I guess to me using the word gotcha sounds more like it is about the adoptive parents and not child.
We also celebrate Family Day on the day Avery's adoption was finalized. We do special things together as a family. Nothing fancy...this year we made blueberry pancakes, played in the backyard, danced, and went out for ice cream. Avery still talks about our Family Day even though these are things we might do on any day. For us, it's a day to celebrate our family and the love we have for each other. It's kind of like a day of Thanksgiving in a way. If we are blessed to have more children in our family, we will celebrate more family days each year.
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Congratulations Suzi and Ben! What a wonderful family photo in the gallery! Many blessings to you, little Collin, and his sweet birthmother.
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Blessings to sweet Sydney, and many congratulations to all who love and adore her!
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Glenn, we are so very sorry. We are praying for God to wrap His arms around you and be with you now and in the days ahead.
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Congratulations to all on your precious baby girl!
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It's great to see you on the forum! We look forward to getting to know you and your family!
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Blessings to you all!
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Congratulations to all!
Many blessings to the the new parents, the sweet little ones, and their loving birthparents.
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Many blessings to Baby Jack and his loving family!
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Many Congratulations!!!
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Congratulations Mark and Laurie!!! We are so happy for you and your two sweet girls!
Prayers for their birthmother and family.
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Congratulations to all! Many blessings to sweet baby Ty and his precious family!
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I agree Elizabeth and I remember reading in one of our adoption books that with adopted children you should only refer to aunts and uncles as such. (Ie don't refer to your friends as aunt and uncle to your child). Of course they gave a reason why and I don't remember it off the top of my head. I have kept that in my head since reading it.
I would like to know the reason why...we refer to my best friend as uncle Jeremy. The kids love uncle Jeremy and I am not sure why them being adopted and refering to a family friend as uncle a bad thing. Jeremy and I are like brother and sister, I am even his best chick (man) for his wedding next week. Jeremy has told us on many occasions that he would do ANYTHING for our children, that's more than my brother in law would do and they call him uncle? I guess I am confused why that with adopted children you should only refer to aunts and uncles as such. (Ie don't refer to your friends as aunt and uncle to your child
Jennifer
We too read this in one of the books about open adoption. I can't remember exactly what it said, but it had to do with how children who were adopted in an open adoption will have lots of family and it would help them in keeping track with the relatives in their lives. I wish I could remember the exact wording, but I think that's what it said.
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Many blessings to sweet Jack and his wonderful family!
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Boy oh Boy, it's been busy around here!
Blessings to each of these sweet baby boys and all their loving families!
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Congratulations on your sweet baby boy!!!
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Wow! I just did some catching up, and there was lots of catch up on! First of all, Tina you did a great job! Way to go on standing up for what you believe in. As others have said, if even one person goes away having a different perspective on open adoption, then it was totally worth it. I feel so sad for the adoptive family at your church, their child's birthfamily, and the sweet child who will never know his or her roots. Ugh! And the agency??? What the heck??? Telling the birthmother to get over it!!! :angry:
And yet again, I am so completely thankful for Abrazo!!!
Melissa, your letter is wonderful. I hope your friend finds her way to the forum.
After our most recent trip to see Avery's birthfamily, we received a comment from someone..."Oh, so you're still doing that?" It made me so mad! :angry: Still doing that??? I am pretty sure we have made it perfectly clear to EVERYONE that we hope to always have contact and visits and chats on the phone, share big news with each other, etc, etc, etc!!! It just seems that no matter how much we say and share about open adoption, some people just choose not to understand.
All we can do is keep sharing.
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This is such an important topic. Our society as a whole is in a very "it's all about me and what I can get" state of mind. We have to be dilligent about teaching children to be thankful for everything when they are getting so many messages for more, more.
I think it is important for our children to see service to others as just part of life. Just what you are supposed to do. There are so many things we can do even when they are young like visiting a retirement home or Alzheimer's center. The faces of the residents light up with joy just seeing a little one smile and wave at them. Reading children's books with them, singing, or just visiting for awhile is so appreciated and teaches our children that it is important to take time for others. Something easy to do that can be done at any time.
I have already learned from you all, and I look forward to hearing more!
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Many congratulations to all the new families!!! Your pictures in the gallery are just beautiful. So very much to be thankful for!!! Blessings to the new mommies, daddies, and siblings, the precious babies, and their loving birthfamilies.
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Many Congratulations on your sweet baby girl!!!!!
Briton, you are going to be such a great big sister!!!!!
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Wow! So much happening in Abrazoland lately!
Many Congratulations to all the new parents of these precious babies!
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Congratulations Bob and Diane!!!
Your family picture just warms my heart!
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YES! What a very big day!!!
Congratulations to all!
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Congratulations on your precious baby boy!
He is absolutely adorable! And love the beaming smiles of Mommy and Daddy!
Blessings to you all!
Baby Announcements 2009
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Tears just came to my eyes as I saw your family picture with your sweet baby boy!
Congratulations Mommy and Daddy! Blessings to you, your precious son, and his amazing birthfamily.