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  1. What a beautiful opportunity to live all the positive and glorious parts of open adoption. Shauna, Ty, Dyna, Glenn, birthgrandparents, adoptive grandparents and all who have joyously watched this relationship unfold pray that God continues to bless the openness and close ties that have been built. Congratulations all.

  2. Great article, Elizabeth.

    I understand what you are saying Amanda. Recently someone was asking me about Nathan's birthmom. She said, "She just didn't care." I explained that that was not the case at all. I went on to support my belief that Nathan's first mom cared deeply and that is why she chose to carry him to term and deliver him in a hospital where she could connect with professionals who would help her place him in a loving home. People just have these ingrained, preconcieved ideas and it's terribly hard to dispell them. I don't think I convinced the person who made the statement at all. I think she believes her original statement. Fortunately, this conversation did not take place when Nathan was with me. I think perhaps it's more important for your girls to see your reaction and hear your response rather than to worry about the inital unfounded statement. Just my opinion.

  3. I echo all the previous posts, Erin and James. Abrazo works with couples with documented infertility. They accept the number of couples into the program that they can reasonably expect to place within a 12 month period. The couple's expectations and perameters often effects the length of time from entering the program to placement and whether the relationship between the agency and couple is a good fit. Birthparents working with Abrazo often want childless, Texas families however that is not across the board. Just look at Heather's Brayden, Melissa's match, Jeanna's beautiful family, and the list goes on and on. Abrazo provides birth families with profiles that match what the both families are seeking. The birth family selects the people that they would like to speak with and then it is a matter of a feeling, a fit, a destiny. It is so much bigger than it first appears. Congratulations on recognizing what we all know and choosing to file an inquiry with the best adoption agency bar none. Good luck and keep us posted!

    Hi TraceB,

    You have been talking with one of the sweetest Abrazo moms. Elaine is really one of those honest down to earth people that enrich the lives of the people around her. I hope you have an opportunity to spend time with her family as you journey toward parenthood. TN has a large and active Abrazo network that would be a wonderful resource and support to you as well. Good luck and keep reading and posting!

  4. I agree with Sabrina and Jada. A lot of the end result is due to the expectations in the home. If the parent expects the child to succeed and gives them the experiences and opportunities to set them up for success then hopefully it will come to pass. If parents are apathetic and do not set high expectations, then the child will be more likely to fail. There are success stories from single parent homes and failings in two parent homes. It is dangerous to generalize about anything across the board.

  5. I just keep checking the mail hoping for something from them. I guess I can wait a little longer. I saw that there is an orienation scheduled for May 16th. I think it was a current post anyway. Maybe we'll both get invited to that. ;)

    As a point of clarification, only the Milagros (full-service) program requires orientation attendance as a prerequisite (and this program is not an option for those who can get pregnant, since it's only open to those with documented inabilility to conceive.) So the good news is that you shouldn't have to wait on that May orientation, if you are accepted for either our designated or special needs placement programs. Get that application and send it back in, launch your homestudy, submit the information necessary to complete FBI/criminal/CANRIS checks, and you'll be off and running in no time! Good luck.

    Isn't that GREAT NEWS!

  6. Three precious new individuals born, loved, and placed since my last log in. Congratulations to all the new birthmoms, birthdads, moms and dads and even some brothers and sisters, too. What a joyful read I've had. May God bless you each and every one.

  7. Monday I was called into my supervisor's office. I had no idea what it was about. Upon arriving, she gave me my Item Developer's Certificate. Phew! To earn the certificate, one must work for the company for 1 year, at the end of one year, take an exam, then in the next year submit a portfolio of work showing items edited and items written (A total of 40 items). The portfolio is then assessed by two senior members of the company. AND I DID IT! And I have the paper to prove it.

    :P

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