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  1. NO KIDDING! Let's all send letters to People Mailbag and educate the new dad about the appropriate language to use for the sake of his son and all of the uninformed people who will read his comments and think they are okay. Don't get me wrong, I am really glad that Nathan has found a home with a dad who obviously thinks he's wonderful and desires to parent, but it seems there should be a better way to announce the news and tell about the event where he first met his son.

  2. Congratulations Denver and Tracey! God's plan was finally revealed to you and it is a glorious one. The bittersweet persona of adoption is something that so many do not understand. You have great empathy that will surely bouy Lathan's first mom. You have been SO supportive and positive. Now it's your turn to revel in the miracle that is your son. Congratulations.
  3. Mari,

    I have just read your posts about the journey you and your daughter have made from the beginning for the first time. It is a griping story told honestly and with great feeling. I was completely drawn in and couldn't stop reading until I finished it all even though I should have been sleeping. You have so many gifts, Mari. First and foremost you are an extraordinary mother. Your thought processes and intereactions with your daughter in the midst of this month's long, life altering event are phenomenal. I am in awe. I am also in awe of the polished way you relate the story in such a way as to allow the reader to feel as though he or she is inside your head. The way you were able to separate yourself and your personal emotions in favor of giving your daughter the respect and the space she needed to make her own decisions at the same time supporting and providing her with information is a beautiful thing. God surely guided you.

    I am touched that you have chosen to share such personal parts of yourself and your family especially knowing that doing so is not within your comfort zone nor is it your usual manner. You are impacting the greater community and healing too. I want to reach through this montor and give you the biggest hug.

    When I first started reading, I thought that your writing should be published. I think it could and should be pubilished on its own. You have a powerful story, insight, and writing style. Thank you for sharing it with us all.

    I think we have a future keynote speaker in our midst. May God continue to bless and heal you as you bless others with your experience, empathy, love, and words.

    Jean

  4. Matt and Melinda,

    Thank you for sharing your wonderful and devine journey to your son. There are no hard and fast rules about the adoption journey with the exception of the one that says it happens in God's time. Somtimes the devine engineering is clearly visible and other times it's subtle and under it all. Each story has God's signature on it and each moves at the rate of perfection.

  5. I'm with Heather in hoping and praying that baby Noah has finally found his forever family. Congratulations to them and the first family as they bond and begin life as a bigger better family across the miles. Miracles never cease.

  6. I just wanted to copy this here, because it was originally posted on the Bald Tires thread and I thought it was so special, it deserved to be someplace else where folks could find it, as well! (Thanks, Rebecca!)

    This past Sunday at church my pastor gave me an excerpt from a book to read. It was called A Family of Two. Basically, this woman felt that her church's family friendly activities meant having events focused on children. She cringed at these events because people would always ask her "when are you going to start a family?". They had been trying, but hadn't talked about adoption or any other options

    One day in her Sunday School class she read the creation story ("God saw all that he had made, and it was very good"). A little girl raised her hand and said there weren't any children. This woman came to realize that God's creation in His words was very good (not almost good or sort of good). She realized that she and her husband were not a couple waiting to become a family; they were already a family. She said "we were who God created us to be. We needed to stop seeing ourselves as a family-in-waiting and instead start being a family of two."

    They started enjoying family activites together and doing things she'd once envisioned doing with her children.

    When someone asked her "so, when are you going to start a family?" she replied "We already have. We just aren't sure if God is going to add to it or not."

    She has written a book called Empty Womb, Aching Heart (Marlo Schalesky) - it says it offers understanding and hope to those struggling with the heartbreak of infertility. I haven't read the book so I don't know if it is good or not.

    I'm thinking of all the parents in waiting.

    God has a plan for all of us. I know it is hard to be patient, but we must trust in Him and know that He already knows what will happen.

    This is SO true. Perhaps the book should go on the reading list of PIW.

  7. Thank you so much to our dear Abrazo friends for all of your well wishes! I just posted an update on the Stickyback thread and will post more photos as soon as we take them....it has been a crazy first two days! Thank you for your sweet announcement Elizabeth -- can you point us in the drection of some bluebonnets? Will we see them on our drive to SA on Monday? Ooo, we would love to see them!

    Susan, Bill, Tasia and Elektra

    You MUST have bluebonnet pictures, Susan. Unfortunately, we have been very dry and the bluebonnets aren't as prolific as usual. There is a wildflower farm in Fredricksburg which is wonderful. If you get a chance you may want to check it out. It is sure to have all sorts of wildflower fields.

    Jean

  8. Oh my goodness!!! I didn't even see this coming...I mean I must have missed the hints! I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU ALL! A wonderful family blessed again! So glad to hear this news this morning! Congrats! :wub:

    Same here, Andrea. I was SO pleasantly surprised when I read this thread to hear that Susan, Bill, and Tasia, have traveled to Texas to expand their family. Congratulations!

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