Let me add an "AMEN" to unexpected blessings as we got a call when Katharine was 11 months and one day old -- completely out of the blue -- to tell us that little Addison had been born and to ask if we would take her. We got throught the shock, the whirlwind, the laughter, the tears and the rest, as they say, is history. A wonderful history, at that. Key to all of this, though, was and is the relationship that we have with their birth family. While we wish it was one of more frequent communication -- we would like to talk them more than they are available --we are always there for them when they can talk. And they know that no matter what, we love them and are here for them. We're so blessed! What a journey.