Hi Everyone,
This is a good topic. I was also nervous when we decided to adopt again to tell our birthmom. I started out by saying what would you think if Brayden became a big brother? Then she asked me if I was pregant. I laughed and said no and then went on to tell her about what was going on. She was very excited and wanted to talk to our second birthmom. She said if she could help her in anyway she wanted to. So, I gave her our second birthmom's number. BUT before I did I asked our second BP if she wanted to talk to her. She thought it would be great since she didn't know anyone who has been threw this. Make a long story short they talked and met and now are great friends. Like they each say their children are brother and sister. They have even gotten together after our second adoptation. I'm thankful that they are friends and they can lean on each other if need be.
Speaking of bms I do want to take a minute and brag about our first one. She is graduating from nursing school in May. I'm so proud of her!! She has really made her dreams come true. She is also getting married in may to a great guy. OK.. I'll stop BUT I am very proud and happy for her!!