Wow!
The ones that come to mind because I would be appalled if someone referred to me or my child (or if I were a birthparent) as them;
Adoptive caregiver - sounds like I'm just a babysitter.
Exiled parent or simple parent - exiled really - it sounds like their in some early century being sent out of a country never to be returned or something and simple parent - who would really want to be associated with these terms????
The last one that really caught my eye was the "lost to adoption" referring to our children. Are they missing do we need to write a police report, did we lose them at the playground?
Like I said WOW - I would be shocked if anyone ever made use of these "Honest Adoption Language" terms in my presence!