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1HotMamma!

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  1. I know that I did not hessitate to call Abrazo when I found out that I was pregnant a second time even though I was a little embarassed that I had messed up again. When I first called I really wasn't considering my first childs APs because we had kinda lost touch and I felt like the openness had been lost with them. I did however keep them in mind when I recieved the packet of profiles, but would not make any final desisions until I had talked to them to see if they would really want to adopt another child of mine or not. After spending my lunch hour on the phone with them I decided that I would rather keep my children toghether instead of apart and also it would be easier on myself to only have to keep up with one family instead of two. We the APs and myself made a renewd promise of openess and are in touch more now then we have ever been in the 4 years that I have known them. So if you are faced with an unplaned pregnancy again, pick up the phone and call!
  2. I am a birthmother and had been wanting to go and see the movie before I had my son, and the birthfather had been promising me we would go see it, but never had the time, the after our son was born I wanted to go see it, and finally in the last week of my maternity leave from work I went and saw the movie. This was a great movie and I recomend it to anyone that has not seen it. In some sense of a way I conected with Juno, but then again it was hard to conect fully with the character because she was 16 in the movie and I am 26 yrs old. Placing your child for adoption is not an easy desesion, and even though I knew that is what I wanted without a doubt in my mind for both of my children that I placed, through Abrazo, I still 3 1/2 years later after my first child placed strugle with emotions. When my tears started flowing was when Juno went into labor, it brought back memories of when I was in labor, not the pain. Just the fact that I was bringing this beautiful life or gift into this world and giving this gift to someone else, a gift tht they can not give themselves. Then the tears really came when it showed her and Bleaker in the hospital bed togetther and she was crying. Oh the memories how they hurt. The loss of my child that I waited for nine months to see and now he is gone. The onlty thing that really bothered me as birthmother about the movie was the way the movie ended. Juno get's pregnant, chooses adoption for the baby, has the baby, cries and presto everything is normal again. SOOOOOOOO not true! But thats Hollywood for ya! Sugar coat everything. I really wish that there was a little more on the emotions of how Juno felt after the fact, not just her and Bleaker singing a song together in front of his house like no big deal.
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